Peter Okoye, the Nigerian singer formerly of the iconic music duo P-Square, has taken a bold stand by publicly criticising his family in the wake of a court case involving his elder brother, Jude Okoye.
Jude, who once managed P-Square, is currently being prosecuted alongside Northside Music Limited by Nigeria’s Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) for alleged money laundering of N1.38 billion, $1 million, and £34,537.59.
Peter, testifying against his brother, broke his silence on the long-standing issues within their family, triggering a storm of reactions across social media.
His candid remarks reflect years of personal turmoil and a growing commitment to mental well-being over what he calls a “toxic definition of family.”
In a heartfelt message shared via his Instagram stories on Tuesday, Peter questioned the true essence of family, challenging conventional expectations of blind loyalty.
“Don’t let ‘family’ be the reason you’re drowning in silence. I did – for over 20 years plus. And it almost cost me everything,” he confessed.
The 43-year-old musician opened up about the emotional toll of keeping up appearances for the sake of family, suggesting that silence and suffering were once part of his daily reality.
Now, however, he says he is choosing a different path—one where his peace of mind takes precedence.
Peter’s message wasn’t just personal; it carried broader commentary on the unhealthy dynamics that often play out within families, especially when money and power are involved.
“Love doesn’t manipulate, loyalty doesn’t betray and family does not steal from you,” he declared. “Family that steals and breaks you isn’t family at all.”
His words echoed with pain but also with clarity, revealing how deeply he feels about the betrayal he perceives.
Though he didn’t name Jude directly in the post, the context of the legal proceedings and his role as a witness made the implications unmistakable.
He continued, “Real family doesn’t drain you, shame you, discriminate against you or ignore your pain.” For Peter, the idea of family has evolved into something more spiritual than social.
He emphasized the importance of self-preservation and drew a firm line in the sand when it comes to toxic relationships—regardless of blood ties.
“My sanity matters. My mental health is a priority. If it costs my mental health, then it’s too expensive,” he added. These statements underline the personal boundaries he has set after years of what he describes as emotional and psychological exhaustion.
This revelation marks a significant moment in the public unraveling of the Okoye family saga, which has seen its fair share of controversy since P-Square’s split.
While many fans hoped for reconciliation, Peter’s recent testimony and emotional outburst suggest that the wounds run deeper than previously thought.
In speaking out, Peter is not just testifying in court, but also making a larger statement about reclaiming personal peace in the face of betrayal.
It’s a reminder that not all relationships—family included—are worth preserving if they come at the cost of one’s well-being.
