Nollywood actor Ganiyu Kehinde Morufu, widely recognized as Ijoba Lande, has opened up about the dangers he could face if he exposed the identities of the men who had affairs with his estranged wife, Muyibat.
In a candid video shared on his YouTube page, the comic actor recounted the struggles he faced in his marriage and the emotional pain he endured. He revealed that his ex-wife had multiple extramarital affairs with men within the entertainment industry, some of whom were highly influential. Despite his awareness of her infidelity, he felt powerless to act due to the risks involved in exposing those responsible.
During his emotional revelation, Lande disclosed that his ex-wife frequently denied him intimacy while engaging in relationships outside their marriage. He described how, despite his repeated efforts to keep their relationship intact, she continued to betray his trust.
The actor expressed deep disappointment over her actions, lamenting that she not only cheated on him but also intentionally provoked him in hopes of eliciting a violent response. He insisted that he never laid a hand on her, even when she pushed him to his limits, emphasizing that he still loved her and had hoped to salvage their marriage.
Lande further narrated the extent of his wife’s betrayal, detailing how she consistently gave excuses regarding her lack of interest in marital intimacy. According to him, she claimed her hormones were not functioning properly whenever he initiated intimacy, yet she had no such issues when engaging with other men.
His experiences left him with a deep fear and mistrust of women, as he struggled to comprehend how someone he loved and trusted could treat him with such disregard. The emotional toll of these experiences weighed heavily on him, shaping his current perspective on relationships.
One of the most painful incidents for Lande occurred during his child’s naming ceremony, where his wife openly danced with another man. He recalled how the man, whom he identified as her male friend, went as far as tapping her on the butt in public.
This humiliating moment made him feel disrespected and exposed the blatant disregard his wife had for their marriage. The actor lamented how these events unfolded before his eyes, further solidifying his belief that she had never been committed to their relationship.
Despite his pain, Lande refrained from revealing the names of those involved with his wife, citing concerns for his safety. He acknowledged that many of the men were well-connected individuals within the industry, making it risky for him to expose them.
He feared that any attempt to call them out might put his life in jeopardy. As he continued to reflect on his experience, he concluded that his ordeal had forever changed his perspective on trust and relationships, leaving him wary of the people he once considered his peers.
