Dr. Ruth Westheimer, a renowned sex therapist in the United States, has passed away at the age of 96 at her New York City home, surrounded by her family. Westheimer gained fame in the 1980s as a 50-something psychiatrist who broke taboos by discussing bedroom topics openly on radio, television, and in books. Her distinct German accent and small stature, coupled with her advocacy for contraception, helped her reach millions and encourage open dialogue on sexual issues.
Westheimer’s approach to sex therapy was non-judgmental and emphasized that there was nothing shameful about what consenting adults did in private. Her humorous and knowledgeable style made her local radio show, “Sexually Speaking,” a national sensation in the early 1980s.
She advised callers with practical and witty responses, which resonated with a wide audience.Building on her radio success, Westheimer authored over 40 books, starting with “Dr. Ruth’s Guide to Good Sex” in 1983, and even developed a board game.
In addition to her media work, she was a vocal supporter of the LGBT+ community, particularly during the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s. Her advocacy extended to standing up for gay men and promoting sexual health awareness.
Westheimer’s life story is marked by resilience. Born Karola Ruth Siegel in Frankfurt, Germany, in 1928, she fled Nazi persecution as a child and later learned her parents had been murdered in the Holocaust.
Despite severe injuries from a bomb blast in Jerusalem at age 20, she fully recovered. Her personal life included several marriages and children, and she pursued higher education, eventually earning a doctorate in education.
After joining Planned Parenthood, Westheimer caught the attention of a New York radio executive and began her influential radio career in 1980.
Her legacy includes her children, Miriam and Joel, and four grandchildren, who survive her. Dr. Ruth’s contributions to sex therapy and her role in breaking down barriers in public discussions about sex remain significant.
